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Words, grammatical forms and meanings linked to the ontology.
unmother en · NOUN
Etymology
From un- + mother.
Meanings
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A woman who is not a mother.
How we lace away The hours interminable, Intricate and Pale, we nuns And all such unmothers of men;
1946, Sheila Wingfield, Beat Drum, Beat Heart, page 71:So there are mothers and unmothers, and while neither choice is the easy one to make, motherhood is at least the comfortable one.
2015, Jessica Knoll, Luckiest Girl Alive:There is experimentation with sexuality, monogamy and nonmonogamy, mothers and "unmothers," parenting by groups of bilogical and/or fictive kins, living in separate households and coparenting, etc.
1998, Ellen Cole, Janet M. Wright, Esther D Rothblum, Lesbian Step Families: An Ethnography of Love, page 11:
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unmother en · VERB
Etymology
From un- + mother.
Meanings
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To cause to cease being a mother; to kill or otherwise remove (a mother's) children.
One day modi mother and unmothered. True twinnes in birth and death ; together drown in this sad stream.
1640, Ovid, translated by John Gower, edited by Edward Alliston, Ovids Festivalls: Or Romane Calendar - Issue 2, page 33:I e'en quake to proceed, my spirit turns edge, I fear me she's unmother'd; yet I'll venture.
1966, Cyril Tourneur, Lawrence J. Ross, The Revenger's Tragedy, page 34:My father is departed, I with thee am fallen — thyself art dead and gone : but our foes laugh ; and our unmothered mother is frantic with delight; on whom thou oftentimes wouldst send me word in secret that thou wert on the point thyself to come an avenger.
1823, Sophocles, The Tragedies of Sophocles - Volume 2, page 195:The dead daughter presents the already complex mother/daughter relation and unveils in it the (abject?) desire to unmother: in Beloved, the killing of the daughter is done to free her from a future of slavery, and in this it discloses another story,
1999, Anglistica - Volume 3, page 97:
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To cause to cease having a mother or to fail to mother properly.
In his poems, Jarrell can finesse the emotional trauma of having been unmothered by a mother who betrayed him both with a divorce and with a displacing younger brother, by now being the mother in the domain of his poetry, wholly on his own terms.
2006, Lorrie Goldensohn, Dismantling Glory:Whatever keeps me from my beginnings, whatever chops me off and isolates me from my whole life is to the harm of my spirit; it unmothers me; it dispossesses me of my heritage and of my truth, and how can I pass on what is mine if I have not received what was others' and passed on to me? he thought.
1952, William Goyen, Ghost and flesh: stories and tales, page 132:
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