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pick-me girl en · NOUN

Pronunciation

Etymology

From the phrase pick me + girl, the implication being that such women, like someone pleading "pick me!", are desperate to be chosen over their putative competition.

Meanings

  1. (derogatory) A woman who asserts that she is unlike (and sometimes better than) most other women, in order to gain attention, approval, or validation from men.
    • Coordinate term: pick-me boy
    • She kept changing her mind about which pick-me girl it would be from the Popular Group who would get to share her tent. 2020, Suzanne Daniel, A Girl in Three Parts, Knopf Books for Young Readers, →ISBN, page 55:
    • I have been called a handmaiden, a “pick me” girl, and been accused of vying for male attention. 2022 February 4, Marie Le Conte, “Feminism has been reduced to the transgender debate”, in The New Statesman:
    • Perhaps that's why Daniel saw her past the rest of the “pick me” girls. 2013, Stephen Hayes, Rock Haulter, eBookIt.com, →ISBN:

Forms

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pick-me girls Number=Plur lexicographic
pick me girl alternative lexicographic

Relateds

Karen · simp

Synonyms

NLOG · pickmeisha · pick-me