Some of the nelliest boys unable to get or keep a job, some of the toughest girls breaking their bodies trying to do men's work. 2012, Lee Lynch, The Raid:
From Christopher Street to Castro Street, these men are peddling the same message. I'm butch, a macho man. Well, it ain't necessarily so. In fact, as a general rule of thumb, the butcher the get-up, the nellier the wearer. 1979 April 21, Greg Jackson, “He Looks Like Tarzan But He Talks Like Jane”, in Gay Community News, page 17: