have someone by the balls en · VERB
Pronunciation
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Meanings
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(idiomatic, slang, vulgar) To exercise total control over someone; to be in a position to threaten or extort someone.
Angel Batista immediately makes the connection that Quinn has been banging Nadia, a stripper working for Isaac’s people. Quinn adamantly denies that he would steal evidence and then storms into the strip club to demand that Nadia be set free. Unfortunately, they have him by the balls because they could kill Nadia at any moment and destroy Quinn’s police career once and for all if they revealed his tampering with evidence.
November 13 2012, Socialitelife.com, ‘Dexter’ Recap: ‘Chemistry’https://web.archive.org/web/20151229215607/http://www.socialitelife.com/dexter-recap-chemistry-11-2012You think I wouldn't have him Unless I could have him by the balls You think I just dish it out You don't think I take it at all
1992, Ani DiFranco, I'm No Heroine:I feared what was to come. I was knuckling under to my blackmailer. It was a sure sign of weakness. If he didn't already, he'd know he had me by the balls as soon as he saw me wearing the shirt.
2004, Mark A. Roeder, Someone is Watching, page 138:
Forms
| Spelling | Features | Labels | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| had someone by the balls | Tense=Past, VerbForm=Part | lexicographic | |
| had someone by the balls | Tense=Past | lexicographic | |
| has someone by the balls | Number=Sing, Person=3, Tense=Pres | lexicographic | |
| having someone by the balls | Tense=Pres, VerbForm=Part | lexicographic |
Synonyms
have someone by the short hairs § Synonyms
Translations (12)
pl mieć w ręce (to exercise total control over someone) · pl trzymać w garści (to exercise total control over someone) · es tener a alguien por los huevos (to exercise total control over someone) · es tener a alguien por los cojones (to exercise total control over someone) · de jemanden am Arsch haben (to exercise total control over someone) · pl mieć w ręku (to exercise total control over someone) · de jemanden am Wickel haben (to exercise total control over someone) · es tener agarrado por los cojones (to exercise total control over someone) · pl trzymać krótko (to exercise total control over someone) · es coger por los huevos (to exercise total control over someone) · pl mieć w garści (to exercise total control over someone) · pl trzymać w szachu (to exercise total control over someone)