controllingness en · NOUN
Etymology
From controlling + -ness.
Meanings
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(uncountable) The quality of being controlling.
She married not only despite his controllingness, but partially because of it. Lacking belief in herself, she unconsciously sought a partner who would "take over" for her.
2002, Mark A. Reinecke, Michael R. Davison, Comparative Treatments Of Depression, page 130: